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Grothman's Bill Links Nonmarital Parenthood with Child Abuse

State Sen. Glenn Grothman has proposed a bill that would require the Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Board to consider single parenthood a contributing factor to child abuse.

 

State Sen. Glenn Grothman has proposed a bill that considers nonmarital parenthood a contributing factor to child abuse.

Grothman presented the bill to the Senate Committee on Public Health, Human Services and Revenue public hearing last week, according to the Huffington Post.

Senate Bill 507 states it is "an act to amend ...  statutes ... relating to: requiring the Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Board to emphasize nonmarital parenthood as a contributing factor to child abuse and neglect."

Grothman was unavailable for comment Monday afternoon but you can read more about his stance in a newsletter he published regarding his belief that the breakdown of the family is America's biggest problem.

The announcement of the bill has turned a lot of heads.

"Wisconsin State Senator Glenn Grothman, the Assistant Majority Leader and a close ally of GOP Governor Scott Walker in the effort to destroy collective bargaining in the Badger State, is taking crazy to new levels," Forbes contributor Rick Unbar wrote.

A post on The New Civil Rights Movement web site also considers the bill an attack on gay couples who are raising children together.

Commentor Nikesha on TheRoot.com suggests that the bill is merely a political distraction from other important social issues. 

A Rhode Island resident started a petition on Change.org: "Withdraw Senate Bill 507 and end the war on women."

In 2009 there were approximately 13.5 million single parents in the U.S., with single mothers outnumbering single fathers five to one according to U.S. Census Data posted on TheBostonChannel.com. Single-parent households make up a third of households in Wisconsin.

Do you agree or disagree with Grothman?

Related Topics: Child Abuse and Single Parents

Tracy Lee

2:52 am on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

This is insane and a crazy waste of time. Nut jobs like this scare the crap out of me when they are in positions of power. Shame on him for placing such a stigma on single parents.

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Heather Asiyanbi

8:10 am on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

@Tracy - well said! I was stunned when I first read this over the weekend, and, of course, I am dismayed as well.

Tim Scott

11:32 am on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

The local shopper in Racine regularly carries horror stories about child abuse and children being murdereed.

Do you know what the common thread is?

HINT: It's not marriage.

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Tim Scott

11:35 am on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

BTW - While you're calling people names and hating on the facts, children are dying - in reality.

The rate of child abuse in single parent households is 27.3 children per 1,000, which is nearly twice the rate of child abuse in two parent households (15.5 children per 1,000).
An analysis of child abuse cases in a nationally representative sample of 42 counties found that children from single parent families are more likely to be victims of physical and sexual abuse than children who live with both biological parents. Compared to their peers living with both parents, children in single parent homes had:
77 percent greater risk of being physically abused
87 percent greater risk of being harmed by physical neglect
165 percent greater risk of experiencing notable physical neglect
74 percent greater risk of suffering from emotional neglect
80 percent greater risk of suffering serious injury as a result of abuse
120 percent greater risk of experiencing some type of maltreatment overall.
A national survey of nearly 1,000 parents found that 7.4 percent of children who lived with one parent had been sexually abused, compared to only 4.2 percent of children who lived with both biological parents.

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Tim Scott

11:37 am on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Using data from 1,000 students tracked from seventh or eighth grade in 1988 through high school in 1992, researchers determined that only 3.2 percent of the boys and girls who were raised with both biological parents had a history of maltreatment. However, a full 18.6 percent of those in other family situations had been maltreated.
A study of 156 victims of child sexual abuse found that the majority of the children came from disrupted or single-parent homes; only 31 percent of the children lived with both biological parents. Although stepfamilies make up only about 10 percent of all families, 27 percent of the abused children in this study lived with either a stepfather or the mother's boyfriend.49

http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/usermanuals/foundation/foundatione.cfm

A common theme amongst discussions that involve children being abused by boyfriends notes that the child pays for the Mother's choice of penis.

That's the facts. Call them crazy if you want.

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Ace Ragu

5:18 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Tim, your are the man. We call this a logic bomb

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Miriam Feldstein Case

2:47 am on Wednesday, March 7, 2012

These are not crazy comments. You have said what has been on my mind for a long time. Thank you.

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MaryO

5:15 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

'boy"friend looks like "man" was the problem

Tim Scott

11:39 am on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Fox 6 News. KENOSHA — Officials say a Kenosha man’s home became a crime scene, but before investigators could catch up to an accused rapist, he ran, and hasn’t been seen since last fall. 67-year-old Luis “‘Louie” Carrillo is wanted in connection with child sexual assault charges. Kenosha police say Carrillo met a young mom and began a relationship with her. He then welcomed her two and three-year-old daughters into his home. “He sent her a letter stating that he loved her and cared for her. He wanted her and the kids to move in with him,” Kenosha Police Detective Warren Denharthog said.
Investigators say they all lived in the home for about three months, and then one of the girls made a shocking admission, accusing Carrillo of assaulting her and her sister. Denharthog described the family’s reaction: “Words, anger, there’s going to be frustration. There’s going to be ‘why did this happen?’” Denharthog said.
When the furious mom went to confront Carrillo, she found the home vacant. Now, law enforcement is looking for a fugitive. “He’s aware of what he did, and he’s aware that we’re looking for him, and he’s on the run, and he knows he did something wrong,” Denharthog said.

http://racineuncovered.org/2012/03/us-marshals-search-for-luis-carrillo/

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Laura

2:14 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Are national statistics from 25 years ago relevant to present-day legislation in one state? Grothman's proposal effectively victimizes responsible single parents whose partners have died, or responsible single parents who have chosen to remove their children from dangerous, abusive situations. Do you agree with him?

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MaryO

5:13 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

Looks like the "man" was the problem

Christine

1:47 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

How about the mothers that took their children and themselves out of abusive situations and as a result are now single? Are you telling me it would have been better for them to have stayed in an unhealthy marriage, consequently sending the message to their children that being abused is permissible and the norm and what they themselves should strive to find as adults? Give me a break! What about the women who are widows because they lost their husbands due to war or other unfortunate circumstance? Most single mothers are single because it was the best choice for their children and necessary for their well-being. These end up being happy, healthy, well-adjusted children because they are indeed with a parent who loves them, dotes on them, and in most cases has to work twice as hard to provide for them. Better to be with one loving, hard-working parent because unhappy marriages are damaging to children too! Personally, leaving my ex-husband was the smartest and best decision I've ever made for my little family. Behavior improved, happiness was found. You can't throw a bunch of numbers around from 25 years ago and expect them to be all-encompassing. Most single mothers I know are the most hard-working, dedicated people I know. Props to them for trying to provide better lives for their children and shame on this ignorant bastard Grothman for trying to run them into the ground.

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Ace Ragu

5:28 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Christine - The point is this, Single parent homes (primarily single mothers) are not optimal situations for children. Now, if a woman happens to have children with an abusive violent man, thats her own responsibility. No one is saying that a woman or man should stay in a violent situation, but that is the result of choosing the wrong partner. Its very hard for me to believe that all of a sudden, in the past 30 years, a majority of men have become so abusive and violent that 41% of all children are raised by single mothers who choose to run away.

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Heather Asiyanbi

7:54 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

@Ace - perhaps not all 41% of those children are from abusive homes, but why are we then not pointing out that men aren't stepping up to the plate? Why does it feel like this is a direct attack against women? Oh, right, because women make up the majority of single-parent households and sometimes, that could be because fathers are dead beats while the mothers are doing their jobs, in the majority of cases, to the best of their ability.

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Al E. Oop

8:46 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Ace, I'll be sure to tell my widowed sister-in-law what you think of her parenting skills. She's raising her two boys by herself while taking over the pulpit of her late husband's church.

She may be parenting alone, but she's raising those kids far better than you've raised yours, no matter how good a parent you are.

Chris Larsen

3:01 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Mr Grothman, as a supporter of the GOP and a divorced (now remarried) father of a wonderful daughter, I am shocked and appalled that you could classify "single parenting" as a cause of child abuse in this way. There are many cases where the parents create a better environment apart and are better parents apart then together. My daughter now has four people who love and guide her. You sir have crossed the line.

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Nicole Hutto

4:28 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

A contributing factor to child abuse, does not equal Cause. He did not suggest it was in every case but it can be a contributing factor in many cases.

mau

11:06 pm on Tuesday, March 6, 2012

We have extremes like this. And then we have extremes of a government who wants our children at an earlier and earlier age because they think they can do a better job of parenting than parents can do. This same government who doesn't hesitate to break into homes and take children from their parents, single or couples. Or take a child when they deem that they are better able to decide what medical treatment your child needs.

We have a government out of control and we have let them do it.

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James R Hoffa

3:46 pm on Wednesday, March 7, 2012

While I agree that "the breakdown of the family is [one of] America's biggest problem[s]," I believe that this proposed legislation is misguided, misdirected, and antithetical to solving the problem it was designed to combat.

Perhaps Grothman should think about this one further and only come back to the table when he has something a little more polished and well defined to offer.

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Randy1949

9:39 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

@JRH -- I'm afraid you can't polish what Senator Grothman is proposing.

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James R Hoffa

10:12 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

@MaryO -

I only call it like I see it!

@Randy1949 -

Perhaps if Grothman actually focuses on the true underlying causes at the heart of the matter as opposed to a red herring classification - such as drug abuse, alcohol abuse, inability to hold down a job, gregarious relationships, etc. I think his heart and mind are in the right place, but he's obviously going about this the wrong way.

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Denise Lockwood

5:07 pm on Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Having read 30 to 50 police reports every week for the past 12 years, I can honestly say there are some pretty bad marriages out there where children are being abused. And, I'd like to point out that 1,000 people isn't considered a statistically sound sample size. If we really want to talk about reducing child abuse, perhaps we should really be honest about the number of children living in poverty. The United Way of Racine County just released their indicator report, which shows that 20 percent of all children living in Racine County are living in poverty. The number of people living in poverty in the City of Racine since 2007 has increased by 77 percent. The number of overall substantiated child abuse cases in Racine County over the past five years has increased by 35 percent. I don't think "single moms" are the problem as much as it's a condition of living in poverty and instability.

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Denise Lockwood

10:45 pm on Wednesday, March 7, 2012

@Tim Scott: because calling the children of single mothers degenerates, orclings, and having "crap" genes isn't being abusive? I'm sorry I thought I was having a productive conversation. Let me know if you'd like to have one... especially if you're someone that's interested in doing something good for children.

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Randy1949

10:32 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

@Tim Scott -- I've never read such a revolting torrent of misogyny as in your link. No wonder society is going down the tubes.

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Heather Asiyanbi

7:39 pm on Wednesday, March 7, 2012

@Tim - no swearing - I deleted your comments because of that.

Shame women? Oh, right, because back in those days it was perfectly okay for women to be thought of as property and not as individuals while the boys/men who knocked them up got to continue playing varsity sports before going to college and marrying someone more "acceptable." Why would you want to go back there?

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Randy1949

9:38 pm on Thursday, March 8, 2012

Well, Senator Grothman, I'm pleased to hear that you will be sponsoring measures to make contraception readily available to all Wisconsin women, especially the single ones as a corollary to this bill. Because I'd hate to think you were being hypocritical or anything.

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getrealdude

4:13 am on Saturday, March 17, 2012

Aren't there important things that our government should be focused on? Ridiculous discussions like this take up time our government officials could use to debate about actual meaningful legislation.
This is not to say that child abuse is not important but perhaps if the economy was doing better families may be under less stress. It is a fact (check anywhere) that poverty leads to stress, which leads to potential drinking, drugs and short tempers, which can ultimately lead to child abuse.
Why not cite that?
Because then Grothman and company may actually be expected to do something about it. I don't know about anyone else but I don't vote to hear someone's limited views on family or religion. I vote for individuals I think may make a difference for the better. America does not need condemnation from a self righteous moralist, it needs education, jobs and fresh ideas

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